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A Mother’s Plea…
This is a statement about routine infant circumcision. It is not about voluntary adult circumcision or medically necessary circumcision. I have no problem with an adult who chooses to be circumcised, but I do have a problem with an adult who makes that decision for a child.
Each and every child is born with the basic human right to physical integrity. This means that they should be safe from any outside force that would take away a healthy part of their body.
Routine infant circumcision is wrong, whether done to a male or female child. I am puzzled why Americans perceive female circumcision as "evil", and male circumcision as "good". They are essentially the same thing… genital mutilation.
Well before my son was born, I thoroughly investigated the practice of routine infant circumcision. I discovered it to be a brutal, painful and inhumane act. My husband & I believe parents do not have the right to make such an alteration to any child’s body, male or female. That is something for them to decide when they are older. We are merely the custodians of our children’s bodies, not their owners.
A circumcision takes anywhere from 12 – 20 minutes, and 1/3 to 1/2 of TOTAL penile skin is removed. There is also considerable evidence that babies experience extreme pain and stress during a circumcision which, unfortunately, is performed the majority of the time without any anesthesia whatsoever. A recent poll of Doctors that preform circumcisions showed that only 45% used any kind of pain relief. This is even after the American Academy of Pediatrics, in their March 1999 Circumcision Policy, stated that analgesia has been found to be safe and effective in reducing the pain associated with circumcision, and should be provided if the procedure is performed.
In cases when anesthesia is given it isn’t always effective. An infant cannot always be given adequate amounts, or a more potent anesthetic, due to his size and age. Also, the anesthetic injections a baby receives into the genital area are also quite painful for the baby. (Can you imagine getting shots on your penis or clitoris?) Once the anesthetic has taken effect the baby’s pain during the circumcision surgery is frequently only reduced, not totally eliminated. Because the anesthetic soon wears off, the postoperative pain that lasts for days is just as bad for a baby that had anesthetic than for one that had none.
Also, consider the fact that a baby’s circumcision wound has to heal in a diaper constantly contaminated by urine and feces.
I can’t even begin to imagine how frightening it must be for a newborn baby to be strapped to a board and have his genitals ripped and torn apart, and what kind of effect that would have on his emotional and psychological wellbeing. Circumcision is extremely traumatic for the infant, there is no doubt about that, because it involves the forceful amputation of a body part. There is truly a definite potential for long lasting psychological injury.
One out of every 500 circumcisions results in a serious complication. About 4 in 100 are either considered unsatisfactory or result in some sort of complication. Some babies experience infections due to a circumcision that hasn’t healed properly, adhesions, excessive bleeding, disfigurement, circulatory problems, amputation of the whole penis, and even death.
Many complications from circumcision do not become apparent until years later… Some men who have been circumcised as infants suffer from painful erections, no skin mobility, bowing or curvature of the penis, scarring, skin bridges, keratinization, pigmentation variations, narrowing of the urinary opening, a missing frenulum, and insensitivity of the glans of the penis… The list goes on and on. Not to mention the psychological and emotional effects of circumcision that many men have to deal with.
People are quick to cite all sorts of "problems" with having a foreskin, and never even consider the BENEFITS of having an intact penis. Circumcision is so ingrained in our society that it is a solution in search of a problem to solve. First it was to cure masturbation, then in the 40′s it was STDs; in the 50′s and 60′s it was cancer; in the 80′s and 90′s it was AIDS and UTIs. All the myths have been debunked, yet just as one is debunked another one is created.
The studies supporting circumcision are either outdated or were poorly done and have major methodological flaws. Newer studies have either totally refuted the old studies, or have shown that their findings are not as severe as stated. Plus, NO MEDICAL ORGANIZATION IN THE WORLD supports or recommends routine circumcision for newborn boys. In fact, an overwhelming majority of males in this world are INTACT – approximately 85% – and remain intact for life.
Most of the problems of the foreskin can be treated medically, without resorting to circumcision. Other treatments can and do have a more favorable outcome than circumcision, particularly because they do not include amputating and permanently damaging a part of the body.
As for the cancer, infection, UTI argument… if this argument was brought to it’s logical conclusion shouldn’t we lop off every other part of our bodies because it might possibly get infected or diseased too?
Circumcision is rarely performed in other medically advanced nations. Infant circumcision rates are: Canada (<20%), Australia (<10%), Britain and the rest of Europe, Central/South America and Asia (<1%). The U.S. is the last developed nation in the world to circumcise the
majority of its newborn males for non-religious, non-medical reasons. The U.S. national average rate of newborn circumcision is 55.9%. That’s more than 1 million babies subjected each year to genital cutting; over 3,300 children per day; one baby every 26 seconds.
Circumcision is surgery, and surgery is meant to be utilized to correct problems, not to prevent them, and certainly not to create them. At the heart of this issue is that babies are having vital, functional and healthy tissue removed from their bodies without sufficient cause and without their consent. To circumcise someone without their informed consent is wrong. THEIR consent, not a parent’s consent. The forced amputation of a healthy part of a child’s genitals, whether in the name of medicine, religion or social custom, is a violation of their human rights.
Americans need to put themselves in their children’s place and imagine what it would be like to be tied down, against your will, and have your genitals cut at with inadequate or no anesthesia at all. How can people subject a newborn infant to such a painful practice and defend it? Especially when it would be assault if it was done, without their consent, to an adult.
I think about it this way… If I wouldn’t want some one to mutilate and permanently damage my genitals, then why would my son want that done to him?
Just because it seems "everyone" is circumcising their sons doesn’t make it the right thing to do. Circumcision causes permanent damage to the genitalia. If you truly want what is best for your son, choose not to circumcise…
10 out of 10 babies oppose circumcision. Shouldn’t you?
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about 6 years ago
Good for you! I left my son with all his necessary parts as well, and he is now 11 years old and anti-circumcision. He thinks it’s crazy. I can only hope his healthy attitude toward his body remains once he is older and in relationships with the typical “Eew, foreskin” American women. I was glad to see someone from Texas who left their boy intact: we’re in CA where the circ rate is now pretty low, but planning a move to TX soon. The thought did enter my head that maybe my son would be less accepted there. It’s sad that social acceptance based on what your genitals look like is even an issue in this day and age. Keep up the good work! By the way, my hubby is intact as well, and was definitely not hurt in any way by growing up without a typical “American” penis! Nor did he ever have any complaints about it…from me or anyone else!
about 6 years ago
Actually my son wasn’t born here in Texas, but in New Hampshire. We moved here in October 2001 when he was almost 3 years old.
People need to know that an intact boy would not feel different (in a bad way) if they are educated about what circumcision exactly entails, and how fortunate he is to have a foreskin. It’s when the myths, and lies, are not shown to be the fallacies they are, that a boy feels that somehow by not being genitally mutilated (like some of his friends are) he is unwholesome. It’s sad that we have to go an extra mile here in the U.S. to reassure our sons that their penis is the way it should be because circumcision is so firmly entrenched in our society. Slowly, but surely, people everywhere are realizing that when they have their sons circumcised they are doing them a grave disservice.
Lastly: Your son is lucky to have parents who respect his right to a whole body. Kudos to you two!